Private and explainable

Relationship check

A calm way to see the warning signs laid out. It looks at what is said, asked, and paid, never at who someone is.

Private by design

You will not be asked for names, photos, messages, or account details. Your ticks stay in this page, are not saved, and cannot be sent anywhere: the site is built so the browser blocks any outside connection. Close the tab and they are gone.

Think about someone you met online. Tick everything that is true so far. Skip anything that is not, or that you are unsure about.

Fast closeness

We have never met in person, and they always have a reason not to meet or video call.

Money enters the conversation

They told me about a profitable trading, investment, or crypto opportunity.

A small ask

They asked me for a small amount of money, a gift card, or a top-up, 'just this once'.

Bigger, and secret

They told me to keep this secret from family, friends, or my bank, or to give bank staff a different reason for a payment.

The trap closes

I was told I must pay a fee, tax, or 'verification' charge before I can withdraw my money.They have threatened to share private images or messages unless I pay.

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